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Methods we use to train employees…

Our approach is simple: We help Government and Educational organizations manage and train staff, employees, and clients on diversity issues without blame, fault or guilt.

We understand that people are doing the best they can with what they have. Yet we encourage them to examine themselves, explore other cultures, and become allies for others.

We work to move people’s behaviors not by pushing them or making them feel guilty. We dissect, analyze, and making meaning of the issues that challenge us in a fair, balanced way that people can hear and understand. We motivate individuals to create something collaboratively.

All Human Behavior is Goal Directed
All human behavior is goal directed which means that people do what they do because they believe that it is helping them reach a goal. We help get things in order when the organization’s goals differ from personal goals and old behaviors don’t work any longer.

We Love Bigots, Racist, and Homophobic People
We know that people are not born hating others. We have been taught to hate. This provides us with an opportunity to re-educate those that have been miseducated. People truly can learn, change and grow. This process takes time, energy, and humbleness to see their point of view to help them create new and better behaviors.

Attitude is Not Just an Emotion
I have heard people say that your attitude is more important than skill or ability. I would like you to think about an attitude as a side effect of something more profound. When people get what, they want they have a good attitude. When they are denied, they have a bad attitude. When their goal is achieved, their attitude improves. Goals drive attitudes and attitudes are side effects of goals. We have to be clear about professional and personal goals. We help clear the air to create a healthy organizational climate, increasing performance and customer service.

FAQ:

1. Describe the methods you have used to train employees on how to deliver and increase customer service to a diverse clientele with various ethnic and cultural backgrounds.”

First if all we understand that all human being have the similar goals and that it is often their methods of obtaining these goals that either increase conflict or create misunderstanding of the motivation of certain behaviors. So by focusing on the needs, desire and goals of the customer we can engage them where they are. We also encourage people to extend gratitude, respect and honor as the only sure fire way of obtaining those productive behaviors.

2. How do you recognize different ways in which someone may be insensitive,
inappropriate or offensive to individuals?

People are doing the best they can with the resources, education and environment they have been expose to, so with that in mind we welcome discussion, decent-ion and free thought that helps us all expand how we see the world and increase individuals goal focused performance.

3. Describe your philosophy of cultural competence and what steps you recommend for employers to take to ensure their employees maintain cultural competence.

Cultural Competence begins with understanding one’s culture. It is interesting that many American’s have not read the Constitution , are not familiar with Declaration of Independence and have little idea of the protections of the 1964 Civil Rights Act. All that said, it is clear that people have different methods to obtaining their goals that we must analyze and taboo that we must take into account. There must be a balance of looking in and look out, knowing our immigration stories and begin open to other having theirs.

4. Discuss bias, stereotypes and prejudice and describe how your training addresses these challenges in a work environment.

The awful truth is that people are allowed to be bias, hold prejudice and operate with stereotypes, there are no laws that prevent those states of being. However it is illegal to discriminate. What we know is that bias, prejudice and stereotype build and the ultimate result is discrimination. We work with folks to challenge their perceptions, assumptions and world view.

5. How do you demonstrate and teach techniques to reduce conflicts on diverse teams?

We help folks by asking a simple question, ” The consumer, receive dignity and honor and respect in that interaction?” This question seems simple but with closer examination we begin to see that the reduction of conflict is directly related to the emotional impression that is created in each of our interactions. We teach employees to be intentional until it because habitual.

6. Discuss your ideas for encouraging creativity, flexibility, and innovation from a diverse mix of peers.

We believe that people have the answer their own problems and we create experiential activities, simulations and improvisational techniques to explore the dynamics of diversity and the empower individuals to play and become free thinkers.

7. What are your methods of sharing one’s own perspective to those of diverse backgrounds?

Many of the stories that are shared in the presentations are designed to allegories or fables used to demonstrate that practical application of the tools or techniques that have have been employed by me or others that I have learned from. Key concepts will be repeated no matter the content for repetition and to demonstrate the gravity of the core concepts. Which means that if you attend more than one of my sessions you might hear the same joke, more than once.


37 Things You Should Stock but Probably Aren’t

37 Things You Should Stock but Probably Aren’t

UPDATED: 67 Items! Every survivalist message board and prepper blog tells you to stock the same things; weapons, water, food basics, etc. So, I went looking for a list of things that you should be stocking, but probably aren’t. Everything on the list will make your life many times easier after the SHTF, especially in a Bugging-In scenario.

1. Toothpaste and Toothbrushes
2. Gun Cleaning Supplies -cotton pads, Hoppe’s, Rem Oil, etc
3. Duct Tape
4. Cooking Oil
5. Shampoo
6. Deodorant
7. Laundry Detergent
8. Books or other reading for enjoyment materials
9. WD-40
10. Sewing Supplies
11. Bolts, Nails Screws
12. Games
13. Paper and Pencils
14. Spare Parts for any and all gear
15. Musical Instruments
16. Lantern Mantles
17. Hand Tools
18. Broken window fix/replacement/cover (plywood or plastic panes)
19. Bleach
20. Household Cleaning Supplies
21. Sponges
22. Towels and Wash clothes
23. Gold Bond or Baby Power
24. Baby Supplies – diapers etc
25. Aloe
26. Sunscreen
27. Bug Spray (wearing kind)
28. Bug Spray (killing kind)
29. Comfort Foods – for morale
30. Chains and Locks
31. Isoprophyl (rubbing) alcohol
32. Mouse Traps
33. Lamp Wicks – for Oil and Alcohol Lamps
34. Lice Shampoo
35. Salt
35. Liquor
37. Glasses – Prescription and OTC

UPDATED:

38. Alcohol Wipes
39. Eyedrops
40. Pet Food
41. Fertilizer
42. Coolers
43. Buckets
44. Clothes Pins
45. Childrens clothes in sizes larger than they wear
46. Superglue
47. Wash board
48. Spray paint in black, white, green, brown and black.
49. Zippers, buttons, snaps, knee patches, velcro
50. Patches for tents and tarps
51. Garbage bags
52. Lime
53. Charcoal/lighter fluid
54. Birth control
55. Vitamins
56. Razor blades
57. Saw blades
58. Garden tools
59. Spark plugs
60. Motor oil
61. Manuel Air/Tire pump
62. Bird seed to attract wild birds (food source)
63. Fire extinguishers
64. Wire
65. Q-tips
66. Cotton balls
67. Corn Starch
68. Thermal Wear

What Else?

This is a short list of things we are probably forgetting. What other things are going to be essential, or especially useful in a survival scenario that you don’t hear about a lot? Leave a comment and tell us yours.


Pastel De Camote v. Andre Koen

Facebook Discussion:

Pastel De Camote
When you’re used to getting just a piece of bread for a meal, you don’t realize that you can ask for a plate of pasta. You don’t even know it exists. So, to ask for it is totally out of your reality. Hopefully , at some point, either someone shows you a plate of pasta, you read about it, or you just hear about it enough so that it becomes real, and it’s not just a fantasy anymore, and then you start thinking “Hey, I want pasta.” -Barbara De Angelis, Ph. D.,
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Black people we are used to getting crumbs of bread when we should be getting pasta. Rwswj!
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Andre Koen That goes for poor working Whites, Asians, Natives, Hispanics and Chicanos. We are one people, we want one thing…to live the Constitution…
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Pastel De Camote I disagree poor whites are taken care of more than they let off to be. You would be surprised how many of them are on ssi and other forms of government aide i don’t know the names of when they are mentally and physically able to work…. This message was directly towards Black people because I have determined that Black people are heavily mistreated by everyone wherever they are at in the world. I do recognise that other Nonwhite people are mistreated.
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Andre Koen I am glad that you have an opinion. What I will say is a long as we don’t see that all throughout history, the ruling class has used the working whites/poor whites as puppets. Providing them the promises of riches and glory as long as they play their role. Do you realize that in the South that only a handful of White Slave owners owned the majority of slaves. That working /poor whites were tricked into working for the Ruling class and a means or a rags to riches story that we sold to them. Be poor and White and you live with the “Minorities”.
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Andre Koen SLaves were not brought here because people are evil, they were brought here because people are GREEDY. Race only plays as a tool for the Greater scheme of controlling and separating the ideas and the power of the people. As long as we continue the dialog in terms of Black and White we will lose.
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Andre Koen We are losing my Friend, but we can turn it around.
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Pastel De Camote Poor whites are not puppets. If being ‘white’ wasn’t working for them they wouldn’t always choose ‘white’. Instead they would be fighting for justice (where no one is mistreated and those who needs the most help gets it). We see/read/listen/learn about them MURDERING black people, setting them up to where they mistreated another black person, etc… One of the grave mistakes that Nonwhite people make is assuming White people are ignorant. They know enough to keep dominating us.
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Pastel De Camote White people are the ones who are determining to keep the concept of race/the system of racism going not Nonwhite people.
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Andre Koen I will hip you to a mystery, Black and White are constructs developed by early man, night was a time of terror for our ancestors, the day time was a time us safety. This construct was poorly applied to our modern concepts of human relations. e.g. Devil’s food cake vs. Angel food cake, White Dresses at Weddings and Black Suites at funerals. They a are constructs that all human’s have taken as reality. We all have our part in the Racial Dance and theatrical presentation.
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Andre Koen Many Black people need Blackness to define themselves as much as Whites need to ignore their “Whiteness”
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Andre Koen As long as we hold on to these diametrically opposing view the “Willie Lentch Allegory” will hold true, the virus and deception that places US against Them will keep us all bound.
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Andre Koen As long as we all keep playing our ROLES the puppet masters, those who hate peace, justice and liberty will keep gaining riches, spoiling resources and basking in their own greatness.
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Andre Koen My Pastor, Bishop Wayne R Felton, often says that “Suffering is over when we decide that it is no longer necessary.” It is no longer necessary. I mentor kids, I teach people about how to use money and I volunteer. My work is to connect all people and leave no one behind.
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Pastel De Camote I really don’t spend too much time how the system of racism got here i try to focus on eliminating it. My effort is about helping those who needs the most help and in these current times that’s black people.
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Andre Koen THis is many of our short comings, we are looking at the short term gains, back up a bit and look at the larger picture. None of us operate in a vacuum, we have a context, a culture and a paradigm that for many of us has been set long befor…
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Andre Koen I will say that it is wrong for me to try and clean someone else’s home when mine is a mess.
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Andre Koen Charity begins at home but should not be exclusive to my home. How can people learn less they be taught. How can they be taught less there is a teacher?


Peace book


You Have a Gift, why keep it to yourself?

Summary:
Every person has a special gift. However your gift can only be recognised and bring joy to others when it is released. It may not seem special to you because you are the only one looking at it.

Every person on this earth has a special gift, we have all been born with a purpose. The gifts ans talents may not always appear to be equal or valued the same, but they are all special. What is your gift, where do you add your talent to the human family?

You have the gift of speaking, being a motivator,or listening well to others. You may have an eye for detail, allowing you to turn an ordinary space into a wonderful haven, where people would want to spend their time.

It’s never too late to make a change and find a path that will allow you to be true to yourself. You just need to recognize your gift and take it out from where it is hidden.

If you have a candle in the darkness ans you do not use it. It does not serve you or others very well. Your talents and gifts are not for you they are a gift presented to you to share with the world.
The time has come for you to let your light shine and to do what you truly enjoy. Do it for yourself and for nobody else. But when you do, your light might just lighten up somebody else’s way.

Before I started my business I thought I had no special talent and that I therefore had nothing worthwhile to offer. I know that many of you are at that place right now. I want to encourage and tell you that you have got something. What it is I don’t know, only you do. But I know this, it is something special.

Not sharing it with the world will be doing a great disservice to yourself and to the entire world. Nothing is appreciated until it is released for all to see, hear and treasure.

Imagine a world without a Mariah Carey, Michael Jackson, Bill Gates or a Picasso. It’s almost like imagining a world without music or computers as we know them. By sharing their talent with us, these individuals have certainly made our world a better place.

There are others you can think of, who have appeared seemingly out of nowhere, and have redefined our worlds. They have changed the way we eat drink and relax, even the way we do business. But before they took that step to show us what they had, nobody had even an inkling as to what was coming.

What about you. Who knows how you could change our world. You could be the next big thing, but even if you don’t change the world like Bill Gates, you could still change your world, in a million ways. And ultimately that’s the most important part. Changing your world.

If you don’t do something about it you’ll never know, what you’re capable of. You’ll never know how it could have been. By taking that first step you’re making a declaration of your independence.

What caused me to take that first step? I was sick and tired of living for weekends. I was tired of working for a living, of always not having enough money. I got tired of getting up in the morning and going to work even if I didn’t feel it. I was tired of being told what to do and how to do it. I wanted my freedom and independence.

I realized that there are so may people all over the world who need someone to tell them that they can achieve their dreams, just as I needed someone to tell me that.

I knew that when I made it I would inspire so many others who thought they couldn’t make it. When you make your dreams come true it may be only for yourself, but there are hundreds and maybe thousands who’ll be inspired. Especially in your own community.

They’ll say if so and so could do it, I can do it too. People are not as much influenced by people from afar as they are by those close to them. Your success becomes their success.

So go out there and follow your dreams. Don’t be afraid to become the first in your community. Take it little by little, day by day, step by step. As you accomplish the one step the next step will come into view, and will be that much more manageable.


Smile


11 Great Reasons why Smiling makes us More Successful!

First: Our smile shows others people that we are friendly.
If a stranger approached you and gained eye contact with you and then treated you to a broad smile you will have a fairly good idea that they are being friendly and certainly mean you no harm.

By contrast we would find it far more difficult to offer trust to the stranger that wears a scowl or unfriendly face features.

Second: A smile can make people happy.
When someone treats you to a smile, even a stranger, you usually smile back. For that moment you enjoy a flash of positive communication without saying a word. As you walk through a crowed area such as a main street you can do this hundreds times in a very short period of time.

When you smile at someone who is not already smiling and they smile back you have brought a moment of happiness into their lives which, who knows, could last all day.

Third: Smiling is infectious.
When you spend a lot in the company of someone who smiles a lot you will soon discover that their smile starts to wear off on you. It is hard not to return a smile; most of us do it at a subliminal level without thinking.

Fourth: Smiling can make you popular.
Which type of people do you prefer? A person that has a tired and listless face. An expression that may reflect their inner thoughts of boredom and worry? Or, would you prefer someone who is always smiling and shows that they have an enthusiastic passion for life.

I think for the majority of us the choice would be obvious!

Fifth: Smiling can help you to make new friends
In the same way few of us would choice a miserable person for a friend. Lets face it we all want someone who is going to be bubbly and a happy and positive.

Sixth: A smile is usually returned
When someone smiles back at you it make you feel good inside. You have just made a short but very positive communication and possibly the first step in the process of getting to know or making friends with someone new.

Seventh: Smiling makes you positive and happy inside.
When you smile it is hard to feel unhappy, negative or sad in anyway. Smiling gives you enthusiasm and drive, it is also habit forming.

Eight: A smile makes you look far more attractive.
You don?t see many celebrities or media personalities that are not smiling because if you did it is fairly certain that their popularity would quickly start to drop!

Ninth: Smiling also helps make you memorable to others!
Have you noticed that smiling people are usually far more memorable than those that are not? It is fact that you are 3 time more likely to remember the person that is smiling over the one that is wearing a negative or neutral features.

Tenth: Most importantly, smiling is good for your health!!!
When you are smiling you find whatever you are doing far easier. It releases stress, worry and tension that you may have built up throughout the day. Long term, developing the smiling habit will be one of the smartest things that you can do to improve most aspects of your life.

Eleventh: The effects of smiling can last for hours
Whatever problems and challenges you have in your life, smiling temporary puts them and hold. For a while you forget the problems and become positive, and while you are in a positive state you have far more potential and power to advance and improve your life.

Lastly: Smiling is FREE!
You are never going to run short of smiles and will always have enough to go around. When you weigh up the positive points of smiling it is a no brainer decision to do far more smiling and share them with as many people as possible.

Keep smiling.

11 Great Reasons why Smiling makes us More Successful!SMILE!


If all you have is a hammer everything starts to look like a nail

If all you have is a hammer everything starts to look like a nail

Summary:
What stops us from releasing our passion. What stops us from behaving naturally. What makes us waste energy.

We were watching the movie “CRASH” yesterday and it suddenly hit me like a bolt of lightening. How many times we misdiagnose a situation. How many times we carry on a path not knowing that our assumption have taken us miles off course.

It is like playing golf and only knowing how to use three clubs and having to use them in every situation.

It is like looking through a camera zoom lens instead of a wide angle.

It is like blindly following another’s opinion.

The fact is that most of our lives are spent reusing the information collected in our formative years. Thus, when anything new enters our arena we immediately go to the past to try to make sense of it.

The outcome is: we each live an illusion. We each see our world through some really heavily tinted spectacles. We each act as though we are a hammer and everything that comes in front of us is a nail.

The problem is. IT DOESN’T WORK.

We were amazed how easily we fell into the trap. How easily we interpreted what was happening before our eyes and made it logical. How easily we searched for closure.

To make us comfortable we wanted to put things into a comfortable categories, having simple and easy ways of understanding our environment. We wanted to place happenings in a box,people in boxes in the same way a librarian codes books for easy access. When we have an interaction with a family member we know exactly what box that fits in. Ah! That goes in the family box. That is rude behavior, do that goes in the jerk box. That is unacceptable in public, so that goes in the ignorant “foreigner” box.

Yes, you could argue that this form of coding is important in life because it helps us get through life quickly. Can you imagine having to think about every encounter you have on a situation by situation basis. It would be incredibly tiring.

BUT!!!
Why do we like to put ourselves and others into “psychological boxes”? What is it about us that we like to say we are this type of person or that? Why do we want to limit ourselves? Why do we want to sell ourselves short?

It’s like being a carpenter who only has a hammer in his toolbox. We are restricting ourselves beyond belief. Just imagine how restricting it would be if you only had a hammer in your toolbox? How can you get passionate about anything if all you are capable of is knocking the brains out of any information that comes your way?

How do you find out what you were brought onto this planet to do if all you can do is respond in the same way to whatever is put in front of you.

How do you develop and grow your children if all they see is the same behaviour irrespective of the problem posed.

How do you rise to the challenges of our society if all you do is apply the same reasoning even though it doesn’t fit?

As Howard Schatz. The famous New York dance photographer stated in one of his books:

+I told each dancer that when it was easy, it had probably been done
before, probably many times. I explained that only when it was so hard
that it was nearly impossible were we perhaps close to getting something unique and extraordinary.

Is this why we like to categorise situations and people? We actually don’t like hard work.

Is it that we don’t like the pressure of being our true selves? Because to do that we have to stand out?

Is it that we can’t cope with being unique and extraordinary, so we just want to be similar and ordinary?

Is it that we are afraid of who we might be? Are we afraid that we can be successful? Afraid that if we admit to ourselves that we have talent we might have to do something with our lives?

Is it that we don’t really want to find out who we really are and what we are capable of?

We don’t know about you but we want to be unique, we want to find out and use our uniqueness. We want to be fulfilled. We want to find our energy source that is released when we are doing what we are intended to do. We want to be in the flow, as some writers describe it.

We have come to realise that what stops us from being in the flow all the time. What stops us from releasing our passion. What stops us from behaving naturally. What makes us waste energy.

FEAR.

Fear keeps us placing people and situations into categories.

Fear stops us from leading ourselves.

Fear stops us from letting go of the past.

Fear keeps our habitual patterns in place.

Being frightened and feeling second best stop us from finding our true selves.

Fear buries the natural me.

“A musician must make music, and artists must paint,
a poet must write, if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself.
What a man can be, he must be”
(Maslow)

What about you?

Good Luck

Andre Koen
www.andrekoen.com


Is Your Social Network Spying On You?

Is Your Social Network Spying On You?

In an earlier post, I wrote about the dark side of social networking. Too often young girls (pre-teens) are attracted to the idea of being able to chat with their friends and update their status for the world to see. While I must admit, I’m not a big social networking junkie and have been accused of not updating my status on a regular basis which for most is every hour and for others, five minutes blocks; I will concede to this fact.

On the other hand, I have heard the horrors of mostly young girls whose lives and reputations have been bruised and in some cases wanted to end their lives due to a post or photo on a social networking site. The main problem is that people are using social networking sites in the same way we use private e-mail accounts; believing that they are chatting or talking to one person, when in reality they are allowing hundreds and for some, thousands for strangers in on their conversations. Recently, a young girl (about 13 years old) posted that she feels like” killing herself because of a boy.” Apparently, she sent a picture to a boy who posted it on a networking site and she feels betrayed by the actions of the boy and worried by what her friends will think of her?

This is where parents need to be involved and monitor their children’s internet activities. As far as children are concern, privacy does not exist. In my personal opinion, young teens should not be allowed to upload photos on open sites. Who really has 5,000 friends anyway? In all of the cases that I have read about dealing with cyber bullying a photo or group of photos were involved. In some extreme cases, this sort of bullying has been responsible for a number of suicides and school-related assaults. We as adults must caution our teens about their behaviors while on the internet. They must understand that once that information is uploaded, its their forever, not just a few days or weeks.

As an HR professional and motivational speaker, I have heard the sad accounts of individuals being disciplined, terminated or looked over for promotions because of their presence on social networking sites. In one case, a person posted that she was hoping that her place of employment go out of business, and went on to defame her employer; when it was reported to her employer by a fellow employee- guess what happen? Her prayers were answered, she was “closed” out of a great job.

What’s the point? Be careful what you post on social networking sites, it may leave you without a job, promotion, and or future opportunities. I am amazed at the number of college students who will tell me that they want to work in corporate America or law enforcement, but when you checkout their Profile page- they are showing profane hand gestures and not representing themselves in a positive light. One young man, even admitted to a crime in a post.

As always, these are my thoughts, if you agree or disagree let’s create a discussion. Visit me on my website at www.lymanmontgomery.com.


Key Secrets to Diversity

Whether you are an individual, small team, or a well-known organization, we at AM Horizons believe that everyone must have some courage and efforts for attaining a particular target. Defining a practical goal and constantly moving towards it shapes your imagination.

Believe it or not, there are oodles of differences among people working together for the same purpose in any organization. People have diverse behaviors; they think differently, perceive differently, and even work differently. The thing that holds them together is the organization itself. Successful organizations identify diversity. They take wise actions and gather resources to balance the whole situation.

Diversity is always a part of organization, which is advantageous as it leads to variety of viewpoints and business ideas, but it also creates lot of confusion. The good news is that this is not a big problem if dealt smartly!

Diversity has turned much more complicated, as for now it’s no longer a matter of differences between just race or gender. Here are some key points that will help monitor diversity.

• The straight solution for many businesses is diversity education.

• An organization should keep an eye on different barriers related to diversity like language, cultural and perceptual differences among all the employees.

• Find the root cause of any confusion that may lower the team spirit. At the same time, eradicating it will help to handle the situation in a meaningful manner.

• Recognizing the need for a change is very important and making a decision about what changes should be accomplished.

• Set a timeline to attain changes.

• Provide practical trainings for employees. Motivating personnel to adapt these healthy organizational practices will encourage every individual involved in an organization.

• Developing and implementing diversity plan involves realizing the benefits of participating in a team, encouraging workforce, maintaining strong organizational performance, and so forth.

Our understanding depends upon our previous experience, education, beliefs and practices. By spending time considering these things, we can even change our decision making approach, way of thinking, and behavior.

Read more about Andre Koen and the courses offered at AM Horizons.


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